#letsbefrank, not every single guy will love you like I do. Don’t ask me why, as I think you’re all babes. But there are some clear signs that; he’s just not that into you.

Some frank advice from a guy that is into you.

Whilst I don’t spend my day dating, I do spend it scrubbing. And what I’ve learnt is that each and every one of you babes likes something and someone different.

And that’s a good thing.

I don’t believe there’s only one person for everyone but I do believe some people work together and others don’t.

So if you’re sitting at home wondering if he actually likes you. #letsbefrank he probably doesn’t.

The truth hurts. But wasting your time liking someone who doesn’t like you hurts more.

So, in an effort to hopefully save you some time and tears I give you five signs that he’s just not that into you:

1. He’s not making contact.

Whether it’s a textie, a snap chat, a direct message, a tweet, an email or an old-fashioned phone call. These days there are so many ways for us guys to get into contact. If he’s not, there’s a reason. Trust me, man babes have their phone on them just as much as you babes do. And him liking your Instagram photo is not contact.

2. He makes contact… but only after 1am.

#letsbefrank he didn’t text you, his penis did. Anything after 1am is a booty call.

3. He’s not making time.

You’re fun, but his mates are better. If he can’t make time to see you, then you shouldn’t make time to see him. Your time is valuable, as are you. Being ‘busy’ is just code for ‘I have something better to do’. Everyone is busy. If he actually likes you, he’ll make the time.

4. He’s seeing someone else.

That probably means he’s into her or if he’s also seeing you as well then he’s an arse-hole. Remember what comes out of an arsehole? Sh*t.

5. He won’t scrub with you.

#letsbefrank, this might not be a legitimate deal breaker, but it is in my eyes.

Moral of the story, you can’t force someone to like you. And if they don’t that’s their loss, babe.

Just remember, that I’ll always like you. And you should always like yourself. Once you do that, you’ll realise that the guy that isn’t into you, isn’t in fact right for you.

xx frank