Your eyes lock. You move towards each other. You meet in the middle of the dancefloor/cafe/dating app. Boom, babe. You’ve just been gifted not with presents, but with a steamy holiday fling. It’s no surprise someone wants to see you nakey.

Here are my rules for the holiday fling:

Rule 1: Keep cool.
As a cucumber babe. #letsbefrank, you always do. Don’t pretend to be interested in music, movies, or food you don’t like, just to impress. Being yourself is the coolest thing you can be. The right babe will pick up what you’re putting down.

Rule 2: Don’t play games.
Ain’t no babe got time for that. Know what you want and make sure they do too. There’s no time for mind games, secrets, or alter egos. And if they’re on another page (or reading an entirely different book), you know what to say: thank u, next.

Rule 3: Have fun.
It can be tempting to stay in to Netflix & chill, but holiday flings are here for a good time, not a long time. Do things that excite you; go skinny-dipping, road tripping, camping. Or if it’s cold, save water and shower together. Netflix will be waiting for you when you return, #letsbefrank.

Rule 4: Forget the rules.
A holiday fling is whatever you want it to be. Listen to me, or make up your own rules. As long as you’re safe, I’m happy. And remember babe, if it ends, I’ll always be here to get cosy with you instead.